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werecakes:

I feel ya Martin.

I definitely identify with that feeling. I had people thinking I would be all up in my ex’s new girlfriend’s face at a dear friend’s FUNERAL. I was like “What the hell, people?! Seriously? I have NEVER been that much of a psychopathic bitch!” :-/  Hell, I don’t usually even have anything to do with my exes or whoever they end up with after. I frankly don’t care who they’re with or what they’re doing because they are no longer my business. So WTF?

(Source: supercrazydamngal)

melodiesofmayhem:

crab-cakes:

kexx:

officer1bdi:

hannasnonsense:

Telling someone they’re not good enough is not okay

Telling someone they’re not good enough is not okay


I don’t care if you’re joking. I don’t care if you think ‘It will push them to work harder.’ Because it isn’t a joke, and it will not always make someone want to work harder to prove you wrong.

Sometimes they accept it as a fact, then they live with a mindset of “Why try when I’m just going to fail?”

It’s not okay.

GPOY

I remember acing my AP European History test and being ecstatic about it until I told my father and he shrugged it off like it was nothing. Then I felt terrible for feeling so proud of myself.

This sort of shit fucks people up man. Perfectionism is not something that can be obtained and it is a horrible, negative schema to get stuck in. No matter how well I did it was never good enough for my mom. “Go get involved! (when I was younger)” “Well now that you’re involved now I have to drive you places…” “Man Tae Kwon Do is getting pretty expensive” “Why would you quit? You quit everything! You’re a quitter.” “Omg why’d you get a B?” “Oh you got all As…eh.” Currently going through therapy to get over this mentality. 

"Everyone else can do this, why can’t you?" "You’re just being lazy, you need to work harder." "No, don’t give me excuses. You failed because you didn’t care enough." "You let yourself fail. You should have seen your partner’s behavior and taken the work load all onto yourself. You let that happen and you let yourself fail." "College is so important and you have to go" ( "I mean, sometimes some people aren’t cut out to go to college." ) "I know you’re capable of more than a C, so why aren’t you doing better." "You’re not trying hard enough to get a job. People probably haven’t called you back because your hair is a strange color" (fyi, it was a sandy blonde). "Why can’t you just do things my way for once."

There’s more where that came from, but I think you get the point. The hilarious part is that my mom always asks “You should come talk to me if you have any problems, okay honey?” Yeah, okay. That’s exactly what I’m going to do after 20 some odd years of that.

THIS. tHIS. THis. This. THIS. this. this x infinity cause this shit is stupid and needs to be stopped and wow.

Sadly, I’m usually the one doing this to me…. o_0

(Source: 8-bit-goat)

And guess what was in my mail box… IANTO! *squeesqueehappy dance* I am really pleased with  how the shirts from Unamee turned out. My bestie got the green one and it also looks awesome! If you’re interested in the design but missed the sale on Unamee, they’re still up on RedBubble and also on TeePublic. Yeah, I wear my own stuff. Why else do you think I make all this crazy stuff? LOL
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And guess what was in my mail box… IANTO! *squeesqueehappy dance* I am really pleased with  how the shirts from Unamee turned out. My bestie got the green one and it also looks awesome! If you’re interested in the design but missed the sale on Unamee, they’re still up on RedBubble and also on TeePublic. Yeah, I wear my own stuff. Why else do you think I make all this crazy stuff? LOL

joliebonnette:

cheile:

MAJOR TRIGGER WARNING for content below, but this pathetic little fucker needs to be taught some manners, internet-style.  pass it on!!

misandry-mermaid:

misandry-mermaid:

please put this shit on blast. his twitter name is @swerveodactyl and he’s being a complete asshole when called out on that tweet. His name is Beau Miller, he’s a junior at some high school in Washington state, I couldn’t figure out which but I’m sure you guys can help. Thank you so much!

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An update:  Beau Miller posted this on 4/10 at 4:09pm

Wow, have to wonder at the lack of parenting that produces shit like this…. My response to him was this:

Educate yourself, little boy. https://www.rainn.org/get-information/effects-of-sexual-assault

and nothing more.

The little shit has at least apologized and said he made a mistake. He claims it was a “joke” and “some people think it’s funny”. Maybe some sick fucking people think it’s funny. Anyone with an ounce of empathy? Not so much.

cheile:

sleepingwithher:

Hearing my own voice on a recording makes me want to apologize to every single person I’ve ever talked to, like I’m really sorry.

pretty much this.  my singing voice is okay (tho i consider myself years out of tune) but my speaking voice is ugly :/

Same here. I despise the way my voice sounds. That why half the time I sound like a voice actor trying out characters. I put on accents and things just to not sound like me. LMAO

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